When Holding On Starts Holding You Back

Have you ever held on to something long after it stopped working—hoping it would eventually turn around? The longer you stay, the heavier it becomes, and the cost starts showing up in ways you didn’t expect.

You may tell yourself you’re being strong or faithful, but deep down, you’re tired.

If you’re pushing to make something work even though it’s draining your peace…
If staying feels harder than letting go…
If holding on is costing more than it’s giving…

It may be time to consider this: faith doesn’t always look like holding on. Sometimes it looks like loosening your grip.

And no, surrender isn’t quitting—it’s choosing not to lose yourself trying to preserve what’s no longer life-giving.

Ask yourself: What might freedom look like if I released this?

Take a breath. Stay open. When what’s next arrives—and it will—you’ll be ready to receive it with open hands.